How To Be A Man Only A Fool Would Leave Take #2

[HPoirot]

Thank you Vanilla. You know I don't want any of this. I don't see another way unless I submit to living how XW would prefer me to live... in this city supporting her and this path she's taking.

In Florida I have family and friends that S12 could instantly get to know. And I would be happy. I know S12 would miss his mom and friends here. That's the only thing.

Today XW emailed me that she is meeting with the financial aid officer at S12s current school. She wanted to see if she could enroll him as the primary parent and remove me from his account and so get aid. I emailed her back to politely say I will not agree to that. She replied OK she didn't want that either.

She also said she is meeting with a lawyer tomorrow to see about mediation. She asked if I would feel better using my lawyer if I had one. She's moving forward with her plans again like I have no choice.

I have not told her I'm filing D. I have not told her about my work's offer to pay me to move to Florida. I have not told her I want S12 to come with me.

I was thinking my lawyer would break the news to her that I'm not planning to live the way she hopes I will.

Now that she's meeting with the school and planning for the next year, I'm thinking I let her know today and leave it at that.

Is it wise for me to let her know I'm filing D and planning to move and want S12 to come with me? I don't think so.