Originally Posted By: Andy125
My thoughts here are that right now I need to creat some distance, shes moved out, shes gone her choice.

I need to focus on me and my own self worth/healing.
Am I right on this line of thinking?
or am I doing more damage? Honestly me detaching and not being at her beckon call is a 180 for me, and to go back to my drug analogy, its like someone "come on just a little bit, it will feel so good" I really looking for some guidance here.

Yes you are correct in this line of thinking.

FOCUS on YOU, that is great advice for yourself.


Me-70, D37,S36