My kids are 13, 11, 9 and 6 the youngest three want nothing to do with her when she does show up at home. The oldest has always been a mammas girl and tries to spend time with her when she can but my wife is always on the dang phone either texting him or one of her friends. She comes home about 3 days a week at around 7PM and the kids go to bed at 8:30. Right now I'm trying to do what my DB coach says to the letter but there are days I do regress. Right now I'm just very confused at A: how long this affair will last and B: How can I keep letting my kids see what she is doing and they know its wrong but it seems like I'm letting her do it so I feel like I'm not being a good role model for my kids. So what do I need to do and how do I get her to realize that this guy has nothing to offer her? I mean he's 28 and lives with his parents, no car, no licence and works a part time job. Earlier I stated (I think) that she started getting text from a random number using a text now app and it said hes not into you like you think he is. When you aren't with him I am. Then she got one saying that he was done with her and he gave this person her number because he can't get rid of her. How do you get her to understand that?
