Good morning Sandi2, yes very melty. I can't help but feel sorry for her. I will try to refrain from comforting her in the future but it's tough I suppose I've been comforting her for so long it was just a reaction. I did call her out on several behaviors and of course it wasn't good. I laughed and told her "that is very appropriate that you don't trust me" and laughed hard. It was mind blowing she'd say that to me. I'm the loyal one for 20 years!!!
I did have some balls last night and told her congratulations on our 4 week anniversary since the bomb drop. She was astonished and said its been a month? I said yeah and 5 days since I caught you cheating. Or did you forget that too? I also told her at one point to stop acting like I was going to participate in her fighting cycle. I told her we've had the same fight for at least 10 years and I'm not going down that tunnel with you. I also told her that when reality smacks her in the face and she realizes what she's done to everyone around her and everyone at her office finds out she's going to have one hell of a problem.
Me 41 Wife 38 T20 M13 S8 D3 Bomb 1/26/15 A confirmed 2/19/15