Phunguy,
MY W does the same thing. You are alone. The WAW is very good that deflection and making it seem like you are the bad guy. Not that my wife even talk, however a last week we had an argument and the W said that the marriage definitely couldn't work because there is no trust, referring to me having a GPS on her vehicle to confirm my suspicions of her. Supposedly this trumps having an EA/PA for months. She has turned it around on me probably to her family and friends that I am the bad guy while cleverly leaving out the "why" I did that.


M44, W38
S5,S3
Met - 09/07
Engaged - 2/08
Married - 11/08
New house - 10/13
Bomb dropped - 11/14
EA confirmed - 11/14
PA - strong suspicion
WAW Plastic surgeries - 12/14
WAW stopped wearing rings - 12/31/14