So my W is absolutely the most stubborn and prideful people I have ever met in my life. I feel like we are in the middle of a game of chicken -- who will blink first. Interesting thing said to me a day before she had her lawyer sent me a letter asking my intentions. She said "you're much better at this than me" and something I said to her "I will not live in an open marriage", so maybe she is calling my bluff?

I feel like I'm hanging in there trying to bide time that she may or may not come around ---

Am I handling this the right way?
I want nothing more than W to snap out of this fog, but I don't see it happening.

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M44, W38
S5,S3
Met - 09/07
Engaged - 2/08
Married - 11/08
New house - 10/13
Bomb dropped - 11/14
EA confirmed - 11/14
PA - strong suspicion
WAW Plastic surgeries - 12/14
WAW stopped wearing rings - 12/31/14