Thanks Z. Lots to think about there... But I think you are right in that I need a break right now. I'm going to take the rest of the day free from thoughts of DB or H.
I'll have a think/meditate on some of the other points you raised (smothering/clinginess/our vibe before our M) after I've had my time out.
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
