Well i'm off to Italy at the weekend so i'll give Fabio a prod
Originally Posted By: edz
Keep reminding myself tho they need to step up, no step up then to bad so sad.
two things on this
1) it puts so much unfair pressure on men who are expected to risk shame and humiliation and some find that easier to overcome than others (narcissists find it quite easy)
2) it actually disadvantages you. Think of two people of equal attractiveness both looking at a crowd of 100 people they are attracted to
Person A, is happy to ask and pursue the people they like in preference order 1st choice, 2nd choice. They dont mind rejection and will keep going until someone says yes
Person B wont ask, but will say yes to whoever asks them
Person A ends up dating the highest preference of people that were willing to say yes (best they could acheive). Person B dates whoever happened to ask them wherever they were in the preference order (random selection)
Its possible person B will end up in a better situation but person A gives themself a much better probability.
Originally Posted By: Card29
***cheesy quote alert***
You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. -Gretzky
And if you miss a shot, forget it, you didn't want that shot anyway. -Card29
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
