I was wondering was I waiting (to start dating etc) until w "blows up" any remaining chance of reconciliation as a way of seeking permission. I don't believe I am.
I was then saying I sometimes think w may be waiting on ME doing something similar so she isnt seen completely as the "bad guy" by s for ending the family unit. That one I'm less sure on, I have no way of knowing either way really only that she told me of her concern of being seen as the bad guy in all this.
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015