Hi Vanillia, listening to those views must be very hard to hear and take. Is this a new H or was he always like this ?
Not sure what to say, he doesn't sound well balanced to say the least. I have heard that people with drink problems take no responsibilty and everthing is soneone elses fault but still, all that in one night.
As Edz said, please take care, the Lady we know as Vanillia needs to be away from dhat sort of cra@p.