a quiet relaxed evening is no bad thing sometimes.
Originally Posted By: edz
....in the feeling I have, I'm waiting on w to blow it up so I feel I have permission to go try. I thought long on that and I think in this case no, its more that w may be hanging on waiting for me to go so she's not the bad guy.
just quoted this as i didnt quite follow. it read like you said your not waiting because your wife is. Are you waiting so your arent the 'bad guy?'
what would your W blowing it up look like?
I'm not tryig topush you in anyway just exploring your thinking a little (so by all means ignore me)
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
