Thanks so much 25, Yes, proof of an affair, and he admitted it - he had no choice - I had the proof, he ended it for a while, it is now on and off (he doesn't know I know this - I found out by snooping) and he sees many other women - he believes that I don't know much about what he is doing now - he lives abroad. It is a long story! I really hope you get the time to read through my posts - I has read yours and you inspire me - also your H left for Alaska, my H left for Russia. I would so appreciate your thoughts on my sitch.............
I am thinking of saying as you suggested;
Thank you for the anniversary wishes. It's still worth remembering, I guess. We created a wonderful family, 4 amazing children that make the world a better place.
