Do I tell him all I know?

[25yearsmlc]

Sonas,

so sorry you are here but it is a great place to be a lousy reason.

I don't have much time at the moment but wanted to reply to the anniversary question.

SINCE HE brought it up anyhow AND SINCE THERE ARE CHILDREN that come from this marriage

why not just acknowledge them and say something along the lines of

"it's still worth remembering", and included a photo of the kids or the family you two created...??

In case I missed it, i am operating on the assumption that you

1) have proof of an affair (not saying filmed intercourse is the only way to get it) and that you have real evidence, not just "strong Feelings" of an A;

and

2) you have seen a lawyer to protect your financial/legal interests.

More later, but if you can, let us know the answers to these questions.

AND what your goal is now, given the circumstances.

Hang in there, and good good luck!