In need of advice; It is our 26th Wedding Anniversary tomorrow. H sent me an email this morning as follows: Hi Sonas, I guess you are probably surprised that I remembered this date.. Anyway, I wish you a happy Wedding Anniversary - and I hope it's a good day...
He didn't sign it. He also sent a text message simply saying 'Happy Anniversary, Sonas'.
The fact that he is a day early doesn't bother me at all - I had decided not to mention it tomorrow (dropping the rope!) but now I don't know what to do. I don't want to be rude and ignore his wishes but I also don't know what to say.
It is important to bear in mind that he doesn't think I know about his various OWs, his online dating etc. etc. and also that he has told me that 'he doesn't love me'.
He is depressed, he is stuck, I can't fix this - any suggestions for a reply?
