^ YES.

Timing is everything. Don't second guess.

But please go with your head held high, too. Keep your dignity and all that has been working. No happy dog that finally got called to come into the house stuff, you know? You'll feel what is right when you are there with her. No one on this board knows better than you, and you got the principle of the DB thing well in hand.

Yeah, TLEE! Many reasons to pat yourself on back. Keep posting.


Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.