Shining, great to hear from you! I can relate to some of your feelings. Especially going through the grief process. I’m ok to be alone now too. Sometimes I wish I could share my life with someone special, but I just don’t see who that might be at this time. So, I’m good to be by myself for now.

Your H could be related to my, LOL. Mu H also has a reason for him to leave our M stuck in his head, and there is nothing anybody can do to get it out of there. The only difference is that he hasn’t filed for D. And there has been no conversation about that for a looong time. I think he has his head in the sand. I will have to pull it out of there when the time comes. Not quite ready myself, but getting there…

BTW, I found you on alternative. You look gorgeous! I’m not official yet, I need to create my “other” identity there.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state