Hi Shining - like Matt, I'm just waiting for final draft of the settlement. It's been over 1.5 years now, and I've finally accepted this mess. I could have written a lot of what you wrote above. You sound like you're doing well! I think there just comes a point where you have to close your eyes and jump into your new life - not necessarily the one you planned, but the one that's before you now. Boy, do I wish those of us who are getting closer to a D now could all get together when all's said and done, don't you? What a gathering that would be! We'd have a lot to talk about, but I have no doubt we'd all have a great time!
Me 53, XH 57 M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids BD June '13 H moved out July '13 Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14 H filed for D Nov. '14 D March '15