So, she did bring up the possibility of reconciling at he last min. I told her that it was best we got divorced. I made the decision that was best for me in the long run. I'll always have love for her, but I am long over pining over her.
That's a biggie. If you don't mind, I'll put you under my list of success stories in the section "Let go". I think it's admirable that you've been given the options and have made a choice that you feel is best for you. I think this is what all of us aim at in the end, once we're put in the position of the LBS.
Would you care to expand a little on how your WAW brought up the possibility of R at the last minute? At what moment was it exactly? How did she bring it up? Was it clear or was it implied? Was it a surprise for you and was it hard to give her an answer? In fact, what made you decide to decline her offer?
DBing is also about saving ourselves and I find it very interesting when people move into the space where they rebuild their life, in piecing or not, so I hope you'll come back here every now and then, perhaps monthly, to give us some sort of update. A lot of newcomers would benefit from it, to see another option that opens to them.
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"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.
