Very good point from Tarheel. Peter, your W keeps you under her thumb by playing the control card. It should be totally worn out by now.
Your written speech is very good. In the meantime, if she pulls that old card out, tell her she can see it however she chooses. Don't argue or defend your stance. By all means, do not let that old card contol your actions. She is accusing you of the very same thing she is doing........controlling. Time to stop letting that card win the game.
She chooses to see your actions as control, whereas you see it as protecting your M. So let her think whatever and stop trying to change her mind about it.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
