Sorry you find yourself in this situation, but you have come to the right place. Take what Starsky, Cadet and some other vets say and burn them into your brain. Your WAW is not going to follow a schedule. She is absolutely lost and has no clue what she feels or how she's going to feel in 12 months.
Starsky mentioned three book. Read all three. The NMMNG book, especially, changed my life. I could have written the damn thing it described me so well. I have no doubt it's a huge chunk of the reason I'm in my particular sitch with my wife.
Work on yourself. GAL. Stay cool. You know not to be all melty, it's vital. Five months in and I still struggle, but it's an important skill. My problem is not that I cry and beg, but that I get angry, trying to control the situation. it's just another way to show neediness, and women (really men too) will NOT find that attractive.
Keep posting. You're in a great place.
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