I'm not very good at codes and I'm confused at what exactly you did. If you don't mind me asking, you slept with her, right? "Hooking up" implies it, but then the rest seems to be just about exchanging numbers after a fun chat.
Exchanging numbers led to the 'hooking up'. Which is why I said I could be seen as the initiator- we could have exchanged numbers at the bar and gone our separate ways, but I made a move.
Originally Posted By: Mozza
So, what has been the impact on your view of WAW and your sitch?
I think that's why I've been so confused, because it had literally 0 impact on what I think of WAW and my sitch. I guess I expected to be filled with regret or guilt or that it would make me want to reconcile with W, but I actually felt indifferent. I didn't go into that experience with revenge on my mind or 'W did it, so why can't I?' So Mozza, if you decide to flirt/date, don't do it purely to get a reaction from your W.
Originally Posted By: Mozza
In terms of attractiveness, how would you rate this hookup on a scale of 10? And your WAW?
If you're asking me to compare the attractiveness between this hookup vs WAW, I don't know that I can do that. 'Hookup' (for lack of a better term) was pretty, friendly and nice to talk to, but it was what it was. WAW has 15+ yrs of attractiveness in her favor- more than just her appearance.
And yes Starsky, going into the S we did not have a clear understanding of things. We actually discussed that in one of our MC sessions. The only time we've touched upon the subject since then was back around Nov when W was still on my cell plan. I thought there was a new OM and accused W, but ended up being a false alarm. W did say that she would eventually like to date, but not that person. Was her attempt at humor, which didn't go over well with me.
