Along with the irrational angle. I found that even attempting to converse via text/email was not beneficial. Seems they will run with anything, get all fired up and spew, go back and read it again a month later and spew more. For schedules and such its perfect but anything that has emotion in it I learned to avoid and set a boundary in this area. If W wanted to discuss something that was not clear cut and emotionless I refused to have the conversation via that medium ... in person only. This helped as IF I did slip up and say something I could make sure she understood what I meant right there, or in my case she basically would forget 80% of what was said anyways ... turned out to be safer to have those talks in person for me.
