I apologised. Thanks for calling me up on it, guys.
I have some issues around childhood abuse that are triggered by someone coming into the house unexpectedly. I'm working on it but H and I have an agreement (which we came up with in MC) that he will text me when he's on his way home or nearly at the house. He didn't text me, and I went into panic mode when he came in (I know it's ridiculous).
I just went and apologised for being rude, he said I wasn't but he could tell I was startled/scared and he apologised for not texting.
I'm sorry Susana, I wasn't aware of that. Yes, he should have texted you then. Still, I'm glad you apologized and that he did as well.
