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am having so much difficulty accepting that she is not wearing her wedding rings


Out of all her bad behavior, why are you struggling with this the most? You said yourself it was petty and passive aggressive.

There are many more serious things that should absorb your energy. The rings shouldn't be one of them.

Do you have a plan of action?

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Trying to follow DB principles, didn’t ask details. Just asked if it was physical and she said it was not –especially with her not feeling comfortable with her body down there. At


Just curious,what particular DB principles are you referring to, by not asking for more details about her A?


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!