Starsky/Wonka- both of your posts are exactly how I feel. Was it a hypocritical action on my part or just a moment in time for someone who truly believes is (and ok with) headed for D within the next couple mos??
I have not had the 'dating' conversation with W. Of course, we never did when she started dating during our S either. To be honest, at this point I think if I initiated that conversation, it would only come across to W as inconsequential. I have no reason to believe that she's still not in contact with OM or dating someone else. I found out yesterday that this past weekend she went to the same Vet conference in which she hooked up/kissed/whatever with someone 2 yrs ago- before BD. She hasn't been a vet tech since the summer, so no reason to go other than to hang out with old friends and party- that's what goes on there. Regardless, that doesn't bother me anymore because I've accepted the fact that we're D, just without the paperwork. The same paperwork she plans on filing once our tax return comes in (should be a few weeks).
