So family involvement seems to be more of a positive thing. A lot of pro M support from her mom and others. I just hope she doesn't go too aggressive on it which will chase W further away.
I talked to her mom and told her there's nothing we can do right now but respecg W's decisions and let her figure out her own life for now and that we shouldn't try to pursue her. I try to be as respectful towards W and family as possible. It'll be a good thing. Her mom leaked a few things already how W is feeling right now. Good for my understanding. But I also made clear that right now I'm just taking care of myself and work on myself. W is not the focus right now.

Is there anyone who dealt with pro M support from family? Is there anything I have to watch out for?? Thanks.


Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15