Starsky - what about the text made you as a man think it could be a "test"? I honestly did think it was lighthearted, so I'm interested in a man's perspective on it.
Well, instead of just a "hope you enjoy your lunch!" it was instead "Let's play can you notice what's different about it?" Just felt like a "gotcha" thing to me, like "let's see if you're noticing the nice things I'm doing for you!"