Good point Mozza, I think she was maybe feeling that way last night as she began weighing her options. I don't want her to feel stuck. I want her to want to be with me. I think I may have been stuck in my thinking and I need to focus on acceptance at this point and make my life mine again, truly. I am so focused on caring for my kids, it's just what I do while she's been out gallivanting. I feel like I'm abandoning them if I'm not there every waking moment. I need to stop that right now!

I guess I'm still learning detachment.


Last edited by phunguy; 02/23/15 07:48 PM.

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