Mozza, you may well be right & my suggestions may be a little off beam. I guess I was thinking 'do what works' and feeling that Jim's current approach may not be working, given his W's ongoing coolness. But maybe time and the safety of non-pursuit are simply what is needed.
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
