I am shaking my head as I am reading your update from earlier this morning that just got approved. You are having sex with your W while she is in an active A? You are asking for trouble.
Go back to the beginning of this thread and read the link about boundaries that Cadet posted. The 180s are not at the top of your priority list right now. Getting your boundaries in order are at the top.
Honestly, I am blown away. She had the audacity to ask you if AP pick her up from your house. WTF?
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa