I'm not pointing you in one direction or the other, but in no way should you be basing your decision-making on how your young children FEEL. YOU are the father. You do what is right and best no matter what - THAT is what they need. They have the rest of their lives to understand and you are under no obligation to discuss your decisions with or explain your decisions to them.

-PM

M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds

"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.