So I am divorced.

[mahhhty]

We had a couple more rounds today. They seem to have gone okay. She was considerate, I tried to be more rigid than I normally am, adhering to the boundaries and paperwork we have. In hopes that she understands I need to be a part of the decision making process rather than being told the outcome. This is obviously a lesson learned from our breakdown.

These discussions are so benign compared to others in the forum and the ones we have had previously. The divorce paperwork will be signed by a judge soon, I have given her the equity and cash according to our agreements. Discussions now only need to be based on the kids.

I believe I have very little opportunity to make an impact, as the communication is at a 10 year low. Its time to do some more reading and re-evaluate my current standing and goals.