I am relieved you see my point .. I did'nt want to be misunderstood. W told me last week or so she knows she is going through a MLC, her SIL told me the same thing .. I STFU knowing that neither one of them really knows what we know, they have most likely not read about tunnels and stages. Before this place I assumed MLC was being 40 and buying that sports car .... heck thinking about it anyone who knows me knows I am separated and bought my Harley back in August... they probably think I am the one going through the crisis!!
Yeah you will have to have a few spew jackets on standby, I find that 3 are mandatory, one is typically at the dry cleaners, one in your closet and I would recommend the third be in a handbag at all times for emergencies. I can relate with the child support .. its the same here, as well with alimony, purely based on who earns what. I am looking at the mediation as just a service to let us know where we stand. Knowing they have to start somewhere is just part of it, I know W is going to flip her lid. For me its just another step and we will see where it leads.
