Try going a day without any love bank deposits (as you put it) or being first to reach out to him? Especially since you've really left things on several good notes. Just to see what happens, if he comes toward you in any little way. By all means, walk past looking great, happy, but turn your focus and energies away from him. Thus giving him space to realize he might miss your co a bit. . . . I get the sense you are dangerously close to trying too hard
Agree with Zelda here. Reading your post-sex posts this weekend Susana exhausted me, just as a guy, and I guarantee your husband is feeling some of this same "smothering." HE WAS HORNY -- HE'S ATTRACTED TO YOU. YOU GUYS HAD SEX. Try not to over-analyze it. Us men really are simple creatures.
Even your lunch thing, I would feel (again, trying to put myself in his shoes since you have mostly women posting on your thread), like this was some sort of TEST, rather than the "light and breezy" that Wonka and others are trying to get you to shoot for.
