It's just love man smile a good thing. Doesn't have anything to do with detachment, ideally. Sorry to hear. My W warmed up a bit actually. Don't know why and I won't read anything into it and continue.
The secret of success lies in believing in something. In our case without having expectations at all. But confidence somehow makes us attractive.

I'm re reading DR right now. It's even better the second time with a clearer mind. Highly recommend!

Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15