I have been thinking there are alot of things I want to say to WAW and i know that now is not the time but from reading some other threads I think it would be therapeutic for me to write her a letter and not send it...just as a way to feel I've said what I need to since we never had a discussion on what went wrong, what hurt existed and such. I realize this is me putting thought on R but I've been struggling with us just ending things and never having confronted and addressed the issues with each other.

My hope is that I write this out and then let it be and stop harboring the feeling that we didn't try.

M: 44 W: 45
Married 26
Together 28
D: 22, S: 18, S: 9, D: 7
S: 12/2013, seperate houses
OM revealed first 10/2013, stopped seeing him
OM revealed 1/2015, been going on for quite some time