So I am divorced.

[mahhhty]

Been doing my best lately. Going out with friends. Getting her things out of the house. Going skiing. Ordered things to make the house more my home (picture frames, different pictures and artwork, etc). I have digressed a little in the area of being happy around her (part of Sandis rules). When we are one on one, I am not happy, I try to validate and follow the other rules, but my emotional state is one of grumpiness. I think its part of the anger I've been dealing with. It is interesting though, my friends tried to take her down a few pegs the other day in front of me, and I made them stop. I don't believe this is who she is, I believe it is who she is right now. Hearing the things they had to say was of no interest to me and nor did I want to hear them.