Originally Posted By: tadpole1025

Before MLC, I was well-liked, life of the party, recognizable whenever I went out....a guy everyone wanted to be around. Now, I'm content staying in. I have no desire to leave the house. I've put off getting a haircut for two weeks now. I just have no desire to go anywhere. I've been wanting to join a gym and sign up online, but I'm afraid that it will just be a waste of money because I probably wouldn't go. I just can't seem to get over the hump...


Before MLC....????


MLC didn't cause any of this Tad, you chose it..



Originally Posted By: Tad

I don't even think there are any women interested in me. Can't say that I blame them, but it would be nice.

This will sound very weird, but it is true:
When I was growing up, I always kind of knew two things:

1) I always kind of knew that my life would change when I was 33 years old. It did, I was 33 years old when my grandmother died. That is when I gained a really close relationship with God.

2) I always kind of knew that I would be alone later in life. Here I am.


You don't know any of that to be true, only what you expected, and worked towards. (yes, you work very hard at achieving those goals)..

All of that changes with a single choice. A choice to do something out of your comfort zone.

And with that single choice, it can and will snowball if YOU allow it to...