Jim just as an aside to Toots comment above, took s to one of our local playparks Saturday and he was having a major push on one of the larger swing nets (think big swing but almost like a giant tea strainer....not describing this well) took some pics and emailed one to w. We then talked about that quite a bit when we met up, the day, we'd been there, other things going on in the park that day.

In my case (only mine mind you) it helps to lessen the feeling of her "losing" s when she's not there and so keeps her from feeling she cant part with him. I know thats a particular aspect of my sitch though. I suppose the question is could it hurt at all?

M:44, W:46, S:10
M 13 years, T 15
BD:23/7/2014
W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014
My new place: 21/11/2014
W/S back to flat 22/11/2014
W coming closer, talking 4/2015
Piecing 5/2015
Moving in again 6/2015