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[LovinUs]

Well, my wife did text to see if I was awake this morning. She apologized for the night before, said she was feeling now fine, and asked if I wanted to take a ride. We were expecting a beautiful, unseasonal day - sunny & high in 70s. We went for a ride to the coast and had a really nice day on the beach, shopping, eating, just soaking up the sun.

When she had left and said she was never coming into my house again, I let my cats inside when it got cold. My wife is very allergic and has asthma pretty bad. In the last month, she expressed a desire to spend time with me here again, so I again put the cats out and started spring cleaning the house. Evidently, she still had an allergy attack when she tried to spend the evening/night with me. She used her "puffer/Inhaler" several times while we were relaxing that evening. The medicine makes her hyper and wide awake, so when we went to bed, she could not relax and go to sleep. She said she was pacing and got anxious thinking about past bad times in the house and got upset - then when her breathing was not getting better, she had to leave. My wife said it had nothing to do with anything I did, that I did nothing 'wrong' and things were fine with us, that the emotional stuff is something she needs to work out for herself. As far as the allergies go, I am changing the central air filter and cleaning the filters on the air cleaners in the house again. It will take time for the allergies to clear out. My wife still wants try to spend time at my place. With things being so delicate, it is like being on an emotional roller coaster - every time anything is wrong, it is very upsetting. I have to work on relaxing and just taking it easy when things are not perfect.

When we got home from the coast yesterday, we spent some time at my place with our dogs, then she went home to do some chores to get ready for her work week. I went to meet a friend to shoot some pool. My wife texted, asking me to call her. She did not know I was out. She asked me to come spend the evening and night with her. It was a nice evening.