Okay then, if you don't think the talking will go well, what about something more focused on the kids? A small but thoughtful gesture? Sending a pic over of them doing something cute. Or getting her a little gift from them if there's a suitable occasion coming up...If she's full of cold, a little pot of daffodils from them or similar?
Tell me to go away if you want....
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus