Susana (5) - Stay the Night

[Sotto]

I think it is more straightforward if there's an A. There are usually some pretty obvious things to set boundaries on there. But examples a sitch like yours?

You may not be willing to visit with H's family and pretend nothing's wrong.
You may not be willing to ML if he wants a D
You may not be willing to share a bed if he wants to D
You may not want to have joint finances if he wants to D

I guess it just depends on whether you have any sense of being treated unfairly in the situation. Anything that eats at your self respect or poses a risk to you...

There may not be anything right now, which is fine too...