Jim0987 #12 - testing out Mk8's new features

[Ggrass]

Jim a bad throw away comment shows thoughtlessness. It's not planned in advance or malicious in intent.

My h combined thoughless comments with being absent, the icing was telling me he punished me by staying away after I had tryed to open up and share how I felt.

He still considered me a biatch about this and raised it in his L comments. H statements still invalidates my feeling surrounding that time, in fact h justifies why h is right.

I'm sorry but for anyone who has suffered a death, intimacy is not strengthened by invalidation of the loss and seperation of a few weeks. H planned that trip, it wasn't a thoughless in the moment human error.

H could also explain to others why that is the worst sin you can do to someone you care about if that someone was him or his family. H cannot transfer that empathy to another. He showed calculated and planned actions, all about him most of the time. There was no real we unless h wanted it.

I'm hoping you can see the difference?
Most people do the thoughtless stuff, I know I did. If h really needed me I dropped everything and was there.

I wasn't planning stuff weeks out, hell I hoped to get thru a day without h sutlely absuing me or picking a major fight. The only thing I planned was to not be noticed, to not upset h and be better so h would love me and be nicer.