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[Sotto]

Yes Edz, it sounds to me like she's very much processing things. She cares enough to raise it with you if she feels you've been stand offish, and she's also willing to have discussions about going forwards.

However, at this point, she doesn't sound at the point of saying - yes let's try again or no there's no hope.

I think it's well worth continuing. If your W just thinks you were standoffish, is it worth doing a little something helpful for her this week? And just monitor how that goes? Nothing huge - but 'oh I saw this and know you needed one' or similar?

I agree with Jim that your sitch sounds a little tantalising in that you and your W have remained on pretty good terms and spend time together. This is good for the sitch, but more testing in terms of PMA, detachment etc. That's maybe something to think about in terms of your own energy.

Hope you have a good day. Black skies here....I think the hail may be heading our way!