I decided to drop H a text as Jim suggested (thanks Jim). I'll see what kind of response I get and may or may not text tomorrow on his BD.

Another thing that's bothering me is H's oblique reference to the A as 'something' - he did 'something' stupid - got all caught up in 'something.' Why refer to it in that way, when we both know what has happened? Like it's a bit of a mystery?

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus