Just checking in, it's been a while since I've been reading, but the little that I've seen it looks like our wives are acting very similar. I had a little reprieve a few weeks ago because I got stern about our interactions with the kids. But I see that the same no eye contact, I'm a demon, lies to others about me, etc. Is all present in my sitch. I really think they believe it to justify their actions. My W has shut out most everyone of our friends since they all started to question her about how she is perceiving me. I actually talked to her BFF right after BD (before anyone knew about OM) and I was a mess going through things that W said I did that were 'horrible' her BFF said she was confused because W told her the same stories, but they were much different in how I acted in them. I knew then that W was really looking at the negative in everything.
An example, prior to BD my W said that I tracked her 24/7 using her cell phone and I got furious when she turned it off. She Actually asked a group of our friends if it was normal that H's track their every move. Of course they said no.
Real story: she turned off location services on her phone, I asked why? She said it kills her batteries and I said no It doesn't really. She said its her choice not to turn it on, I said okay but it helps when we need to get the kids to see who's closer. That was me being 'furious.' Well, i must have stunk at tracking her 24/7 too because she was having an affair for a year while I was 'actively tracking her every move' and I Had no clue
Just horrible spew that will catch up with them some day.
Last edited by MCS; 02/23/1507:05 AM.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
