Wife during deployment EA/PA ongoing #4

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Correct! Do what works for YOU right now!
I just said what I said to show you that if you have communication with W you have to be a respectable man of your words. I did the same mistakes, a) talking too much b) contradicting myself c) not following up with what I said.
These are the three rules of communicating with WAW. If someone wants to add sth to that list please do so.
We can only say things we mean and we know we can follow up with actions. Our words need meaning in our situation. Which is hard bc all our words lost a lot of meaning for our WAWs. So action speakea louder, but it's tempting bc words are easy spoken, actions need weeks or many months to prove a point.

Just having a thought process here