Just sth I noticed in your writing:
She will NEVER get an answer. WELL ESPECIALLY FOR A WHILE.
I do the same thing. We say "never" or use other extremes, then we say the opposite or mild it down. So our W's think we are not men of our words, which makes them lose respect for us.

Just something worth working on.

Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15