I hear you Wonka. The problem is I have no way of monitoring her contact with the OM. I only know she contacted him because of a roaming charge on her cell phone bill when she was in Florida to his cell phone number.
I have no access to her phone - she won't show it to me.
So how do I monitor her behaviour.
Or do I ask her how am I to know she is fulfilling her intention to stop contact?
Correct. Bring up NC and transparency. Save tge speech for if she refuses to do it, or for if she agrees and then breaks it.
