The part that hurts still is all the lies and hiding she does. It's like she lives off of it. The kids have even caught her in lies lately. The wife told the oldest bio dad's grandma that OM wasn't home on the phone. The daughter asked her why she just lied to the grandma. And she brushed it off. I suppose the junkie is just trying to get more of a fix by being more of a secret.
I know it's her mess. But when you have kids they are always in your life. It's not like a coworker where you can ignore them and just walk away. These people control half of your kids life. So it is a concern.
I guess it comes down to, you just want this person to stop acting this way. Stop the lies and hiding. Grow up! If they truly want to be with OM just be with them. Get the divorce and be done. Just frustrated by lies and hiden ajenda.
M36/W30 S13,D10,S6 Married 4.5 together 12 Bomb 1/14 EA/PA OM 1/14 still going Served 2/14/14 Separated 3/14 D paused 6/14 6/15 divorced
